“Things you should pay attention to: the sound of the wind through the trees when the leaves are changing, peoples’ smiles when they’re smiling at you, the sound of the guitar strings in the acoustic cover of your favorite song, how tight he holds you and for how long. Because that’s what’s important. Not what’s going on in your phone or the semi annual sales at the mall or the naps and Netflix marathons that you ‘need.’ No episode or text is as important as what spices go into your grandmas cookies or how the first sunny day of the season feels on your face. So if it’s not something you’ll want to remember as much as the sound of your mom’s laugh or how it makes you feel when your dog climbs into your bed and presses his body against you, then you shouldn’t be wasting time burning it into your memory. There are so many amazing things, sounds, and feelings every day that years from now we’re going to be praying we could experience just one more time. So please, please, just notice. I promise you’ll be happy you ingrained the important things into your memory while you still could.”